AFFRIZAL is falling in love with me... whooaa !!! ;)
Falling
in love is a wonderful thing that nearly everyone out there gets to
experience at some point . I admit that it is hard to tell when a guy is
falling in love with you . They can send such mixed signals ! And yet , now I know that he deeply in love with me . Hoyeay !!
1. He goes out of his way for me
Does he go out of his way for you ? Sure, he could always take a shortcut, but does he go that extra mile just because it is something that will make you happy? If so, then this is a sure sign that you have a guy who is falling for you!
my comment : (well , he did get his way out for me...he tried he best he could....)
2. He loves spending time with me
It just goes without saying that when you’re in love, you enjoy spending time with the person you are in love with. Instead of going out with his buddies, does he decide to spend time with you? Instead of doing one of his favorite hobbies, would he prefer spending time with you doing one of your favorite hobbies? If so, then watch out…he may just be falling for you!
my comment: (as far as i could see , he laughed when we spend out time together...)
3. He smiles at me
Sure, guys smile…especially when they are trying to get some and I put that one lightly. However, you can tell a caring smile from a flirty smile . Does he smile at you with that twinkle in his eye? That smile is definitely something to look into.
my comment: ( not just smiling...he laugh!!~~ :D)
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4. He can talk with me for a long time
Guys do not like to “talk things through” when they’re upset. Many guys don’t like to talk at all. However, when they find a girl that they enjoy spending time with, they feel as if they could talk for a very long time. What is the longest you and your boyfriend have ever spent talking?
my comment: (yup!!~ we talk a lot!!~~)
5. He doesn’t act as if he controls me
When a guy acts as if he controls you, it is not love. That my friend is obsession. Trust me, I have been there and done that. If on the other hand, the guy acts as if he does not control you and tells you that you are free to do what you want (just don’t date other guys), then this is a sign that he wants you to himself and is in love with you.
my comment: ( actually he is not that type of guy...he just worried about me because I believed , he scared with my history before .. hehe ! so now , he trust me and i trust him more)
6. He gets me gifts
Sure, every guy can get a girl a gift. However, if he gets you gifts AND matches some of my signs, then you may have yourself a keeper. What gifts has your boyfriend gotten you? The more special the gifts, the more you mean to him. Maybe a diamond ring is in the future!
my comment: (yup!!~~ and i'm waiting for lots of gift from him!!~~HAHA)
7. He offers to take me out to dinner and a movie
If the guy would rather take you out to dinner and a movie every Friday than spend time with his friends clubbing, he may be in love with you. It’s even better if he lets you pick the movie and is more than happy to watch whatever you pick even if it is a chick flick. Needless to say, this is a two way street and sometimes you should go watch his kind of movies as well. It’ll make him happier and make him fall in love with you even more.
my comment: (these are our fav!!~~ new place to eat!!~~ new movies to watch!!~~)
8. He passionately makes love to me
Okay girls, I do not know if you have noticed, but there is a difference between having sex and making love. When someone makes love to you, when they are in love with you, you can practically feel their soul. How has the sex been? Intimate or do you just cut to the chase?
my comment: (well...i can only know that when we get marry but i do believe he has his own skills!!~~ haha!!~~ )
9. He loves “cuddle time”
Okay, okay, when a guy is not in love with a girl, they generally do not like cuddle time. Cuddle time is the time where the two of you hold one another and talk. You know, share the fondest memories together, talk about your lives, your past, even silly stuff that you can’t share with everyone. Is that something that the guy in your life enjoys doing or can he not wait to get his clothes on and flee?
my comment: (i love cuddle time....he is a shy person but sometimes he did that!!~~)
10. He tells you he loves me
Okay, why not cut to the chase and just say “I love you?” Many guys will not tell a girl that they love them if they do not really mean it. If they tell you that they love you and want to be with you for a long time and they match the signs of some of my other tips, then you may have a guy who is actually in love with you!
my comment: (always!!~~ sweet!!~~)
11. I know I can trust him and he trusts me
I have this gut instinct of who I can trust and who I cannot trust. If you are the same way and you feel as if you can trust him, then that is perfect. If he trusts you in return, even better. Trust is a must have in every loving relationship.
my comment: (we trust to each other and if something wrong happens, we tell the truth...)
12. I can just tell
When a guy is in love with you and is falling head over heels for you, you can just tell! Face it, he has that smile and all of the other signs of being in love. He has that look in his eyes when he looks at you. He sighs a happy sigh when he sees you. And when he hugs you it seems like he never wants to let go and you believe it when he says “I can’t believe how lucky I am to have you in my arms”. That my friend is definitely a sign that he is in love with you and that is why I put it at number one.
my comment: (he is the one for me...)
He matches all of these signs & now I have a
keeper ! He IS falling in love with me! Yes , HE DID !!
i have mine....n that will be my lalink AFFRIZAL MOHAMED... :p
